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I Couldn't Celebrate Hibs Beating Hearts Because I Was That Depressed
The Significant Match: Hibs vs Hearts
The fervent rivalry between Hibernian (Hibs) and Heart of Midlothian (Hearts) is one that every football fan in Edinburgh, and indeed Scotland, knows well. The intensity of the "Edinburgh Derby" is legendary, with passionate supporters on both sides eagerly anticipating each match. Usually, a Hibs victory over Hearts would be celebrated with elation, as it is a moment of immense joy and pride.
The Unexpected Barrier: Depression
However, when mental health challenges such as depression come into play, even the most exhilarating moments can be overshadowed. Depression is a profoundly debilitating condition that affects the mind in numerous ways. It can sap energy, dull emotions, and make it difficult to enjoy activities that once brought happiness. For me, the Hibs’ win over Hearts was a bittersweet moment. Though intellectually aware of the significance, emotionally, I felt numb.
The Reality of Mental Health
In the UK, mental health issues, including depression, affect a considerable portion of the population. According to the Mental Health Foundation, approximately 1 in 6 people experience a common mental health problem each week. Despite increased awareness, many still feel isolated in their struggles. It's critical to understand that depression transcends celebratory moments; it can render even the most joyous occasions difficult to relish.
Support and Coping Mechanisms
Addressing depression requires a multi-faceted approach, including professional help and personal strategies. Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), medication, support groups, and lifestyle changes such as regular exercise and a balanced diet often contribute to improvement. In recent years, the importance of talking openly about mental health has been emphasized, encouraging those who suffer not to feel ashamed or alone.
Reflecting on Community
Football, with its sense of community and shared passion, can play a crucial role in supporting mental health. Engaging with fellow supporters, discussing the highs and lows of matches, and feeling part of something larger can offer a sense of belonging. Clubs and fan groups are becoming more aware of mental health issues, providing platforms for fans to seek support and share their experiences.
While I couldn't celebrate Hibs’ victory as I wanted to, the journey through depression has highlighted the importance of empathy, support, and community. It's a reminder that while football unites us in joy, it also has the power to unite us in compassion and understanding.
I Could Not Celebrate Hibs Beating Hearts Because I Was Very Sad
The Big Match: Hibs vs Hearts
Hibernian (Hibs) and Heart of Midlothian (Hearts) are football teams in Edinburgh, Scotland. They are big rivals. Fans get very excited when they play against each other. Usually, when Hibs win, fans are very happy.
The Problem: Feeling Very Sad
But sometimes, people feel very sad inside, and it stops them from being happy. This is called depression. It can make you feel tired and stop you from enjoying things. When Hibs won, I knew it was important, but I felt nothing inside.
Understanding Feeling Sad
In the UK, many people have mental health problems like depression. 1 in 6 people have these problems every week. Even though more people talk about it now, some people still feel alone. Depression can make happy moments hard to enjoy.
Getting Help and Feeling Better
To feel better from depression, people can talk to doctors or therapists. They can try therapies like talking therapy, take medicine, or join support groups. Doing things like exercise and eating healthy can also help. Talking about feeling sad is important and can help people feel less alone.
The Power of Community
Football can bring people together. Chatting with other fans and being part of a group can help people feel they belong. Football clubs and fan groups know about mental health now and can help fans talk about their feelings and get support.
Even though I couldn’t celebrate Hibs’ win, my journey through feeling sad taught me about kindness and support. Football brings us joy and can also bring us together with understanding and care.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why couldn't I celebrate Hibs beating Hearts?
You couldn't celebrate because you were experiencing a level of depression that overshadowed your ability to enjoy the event.
Is it normal to feel depressed despite positive events?
Yes, it's quite common for people with depression to struggle with feeling joy or excitement even during positive events.
How can depression affect enjoyment of life events?
Depression can cause a lack of interest or pleasure in daily activities, including those that you typically find enjoyable or exciting.
What steps should I take if I feel this way?
It's important to speak with a healthcare professional, such as your GP, who can provide support and discuss treatment options.
Are there support groups for people with depression in the UK?
Yes, there are numerous support groups and organisations such as Mind, Samaritans, and Rethink Mental Illness that offer assistance.
Can watching football affect my mental health?
Yes, any high-emotion activity, including watching football, can affect your mental health, especially if you have existing mental health concerns.
How can I balance my mental health while being a football fan?
Finding a balance by integrating healthy habits, talking to friends, and seeking professional help if needed can be beneficial.
Can depression make it hard to connect with friends over shared interests?
Absolutely. Depression can affect social interactions and take away the joy of shared activities.
What are some common symptoms of depression?
Symptoms can include persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, changes in appetite or sleep, and difficulty concentrating.
Can therapy help if I can't enjoy activities like football?
Yes, therapy can be very helpful. Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), in particular, can help address negative thought patterns associated with depression.
Are there online resources available for managing depression?
Yes, there are many online resources, including NHS Moodzone and mental health charity websites, which provide information and support.
Should I tell my friends and family about how I am feeling?
It can be very helpful to share your feelings with trusted friends or family members who can offer support.
What lifestyle changes can help with depression?
Regular exercise, a balanced diet, sufficient sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to improved mental health.
Can medication be effective for depression?
Yes, medication can be effective for many people. Antidepressants are commonly prescribed and can be discussed with your GP.
Is it okay to still have bad days even when being treated for depression?
Yes, it's normal to have ups and downs. The important part is to continue following your treatment plan and seeking support as needed.
Why couldn't I be happy when Hibs won against Hearts?
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Try reading the words out loud. It can make it easier.
You couldn't feel happy because you were very sad. This sadness was too big and made it hard to enjoy the event.
Is it okay to feel sad even when good things happen?
Yes, many people with depression find it hard to feel happy or excited, even when good things happen.
How can feeling very sad change how we enjoy fun times?
Feeling very sad can make it hard to enjoy fun things like parties or playing with friends. Sometimes, people who feel very sad might not want to do things they usually like. This can make them feel lonely.
If you or someone you know feels very sad a lot, talk to a grown-up who can help, like a parent, teacher, or doctor. They can help you feel better.
Here are some things that might help you feel better:
- Draw or paint how you feel.
- Talk to a friend or a pet.
- Play outside in the fresh air.
- Write in a journal or diary about your day.
- Listen to your favorite music.
Remember, it's okay to ask for help when you feel very sad.
Feeling sad can make it hard to enjoy things you usually like to do.
What can I do if I feel like this?
It is important to talk to a doctor or nurse. They can help and tell you about ways to feel better.
Can people in the UK get help with feeling very sad?
Yes, there are groups where people can talk about feeling very sad. These groups help support each other.
Here are some things that can help:
- Talk to a Friend or Family: It's good to talk to someone you trust.
- Join a Support Group: There are groups where people meet and talk about their feelings.
- Use Online Help: There are websites and apps that can help too.
Yes, there are many groups that can help you. Some of them are called Mind, Samaritans, and Rethink Mental Illness.
Can watching football change how I feel?
Yes, watching football or doing anything that makes you feel strong emotions can change how you feel. This is important to know if you already have things that make you worried or upset.
How can I take care of my feelings and be a football fan?
Here are some tips to help:
- Enjoy the Game: Watch football for fun. It's okay if your team doesn’t win.
- Talk to Friends: Share how you feel about the game with friends or family.
- Take Breaks: If football makes you upset, take a break. Do something else you like.
- Stay Active: Play sports or exercise to feel good.
- Use Helpful Tools: Apps or videos can help calm you if you feel worried. Try them out.
Remember, it's important to have fun and take care of yourself!
It's good to have healthy habits, talk to friends, and get help from a doctor if you need it. This can make you feel better.
Can feeling very sad make it hard to talk to friends about things you like?
Sometimes, feeling very sad can make it hard to enjoy things you used to like. This can also make it tough to talk to friends about these things.
If you feel this way, try talking to an adult you trust. They can help you feel better.
Drawing, listening to music, or writing can also help. These things might make it easier to share your feelings with friends.
Yes, it can. When someone feels very sad, it can be hard to talk to other people and have fun together.
What are some signs of feeling very sad?
There are signs that show someone is very sad:
- Feeling sad or upset for a long time.
- Not wanting to do things you used to like.
- Feeling tired all the time.
- Finding it hard to pay attention.
- Not feeling hungry or eating too much.
- Finding it hard to sleep or sleeping too much.
- Feeling bad about yourself.
- Thinking about hurting yourself or dying.
If you feel these things, talking to a grown-up or doctor can help. Drawing pictures, playing with toys, or using music can help you feel better too.
Signs of feeling very sad can be:
- Feeling sad for a long time.
- Not wanting to do things you used to like.
- Eating more or less than usual.
- Sleeping more or less than usual.
- Finding it hard to focus.
If you feel this way, talking to someone you trust can help. There are also apps and websites that can support you. Remember, it's okay to ask for help.
Can talking help me if I don't like doing things like playing football?
Yes, talking to a therapist can really help. There is a special kind of talking therapy called CBT. It helps you change bad or sad thoughts.
Can I find help for feeling sad on the internet?
Yes, there are places on the internet that can help when you feel sad.
Here are some ways to get help online:
- Look for websites that talk about feeling better.
- Watch videos that show ways to feel happier.
- Find apps that can help you stay calm.
Remember, talking to someone you trust can also help.
Yes, there are many websites that can help you. The NHS Moodzone and mental health charities have lots of information and support.
Should I talk to my friends and family about my feelings?
If you feel upset, it is okay to talk. Here are some tips to help:
- Find someone you trust. This can be a family member or a friend.
- Start by saying how you feel. You can say, "I am feeling sad," or "I feel worried."
- Listen to their advice. They may have ideas to help you feel better.
- You can draw or write your feelings if talking is hard.
Talking about feelings is good. It helps you feel better. Remember, you are not alone.
It is good to talk about your feelings with people you trust, like friends or family. They can help you feel better.
What can you do in your life to feel less sad?
Doing exercise, eating healthy food, getting enough sleep, and doing relaxing activities can all help you feel better and happier.
Do medicines help if you feel very sad?
Yes, medicine can help lots of people feel better. Doctors often give a type of medicine called antidepressants. You can talk to your doctor about them.
Is it okay to have sad days when getting help for feeling very sad?
Yes, it's normal to feel happy sometimes and sad other times. What's important is to keep following your plan to get better and ask for help when you need it.
Useful Links
Useful links from: Mental Health Support for Families: Resources and Helplines
- NHS Mental Health Services Information on mental health services available through the National Health Service, including how to access support.
- Mind Mind provides advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem. Includes information for families.
- Rethink Mental Illness Rethink Mental Illness offers support and advice for those affected by mental illness, including resources specifically for families and carers.
- YoungMinds YoungMinds is a leading charity fighting for children and young people's mental health. Offers resources and support for families.
Useful links from: Suicidal Thoughts - Kirsty
- NHS - Help for suicidal thoughts NHS information on understanding suicidal thoughts, where to get emergency help, and what you can do to help others.
- Samaritans UK charity offering emotional support to anyone in emotional distress, struggling to cope, or at risk of suicide. Available 24/7.
- Mind UK mental health charity providing advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem, including those with suicidal thoughts.
- Papyrus - Prevention of Young Suicide UK charity dedicated to the prevention of suicide in young people. Offers confidential support and advice.
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